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Enemies to Lovers Romantasy: the 131 best books

By Dani · Updated Nov 2026 · 20 min read

Two rivals or adversaries gradually develop romantic feelings as they uncover deeper layers of each other's character.

Enemies to lovers is the trope. Every other romantasy trope plays second fiddle. Two people who genuinely cannot stand each other, locked in opposition, slowly realising the real problem is that they want each other and don't know what to do about it. The best versions earn it. The relationship doesn't snap from hate to love in a chapter. It builds through a hundred small moments, each one a little more dangerous than the last.

This list covers all 131 enemies to lovers romantasy books on the shelf, from No spice to Scorching. Filter by heat, shelve what you want, and vote for the best couple further down. New to heat ratings? The spice guide explains every level.

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The 131 Best Enemies to Lovers Books

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  5. 5. Prince's Gambit

    C.S. Pacat
    ★ 4.4

    Book two of C.S. Pacat's Captive Prince trilogy. With war close, Damen must ride to the border with Prince Laurent, the man who owns him and the man he is falling...

  7. 7. Alchemised

    Sen Lin Yu
    ★ 4.3

    SenLinYu's dark fantasy debut in print. After a war her side lost, the healer Helena Marino is held prisoner with gaps in her memory, and she is handed to the High...

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Most loved enemies to lovers couples

The pairings readers bring up first. No spoilers past the opening chapters.

Violet and Xaden

Fourth Wing

She is the commanding general's daughter. He is the son of the rebellion her mother crushed. They meet at a war college where he could kill her and nobody would ask why.

Why they work: the war between their families never stops being real.

Feyre and Rhysand

A Court of Mist and Fury

A human made fae, and the High Lord the whole of Prythian fears. A bargain inked on her hand keeps pulling her back to his court.

Why they work: every conversation is a negotiation, and he is never quite what he seems.

Jude and Cardan

The Cruel Prince

A mortal girl raised in the High Court of Faerie, and the cruellest of its princes. Their power games are as sharp as their insults.

Why they work: neither of them plays fair, and both of them keep score.

Agnieszka and the Dragon

Uprooted

A clumsy village girl taken to serve the cold wizard in the tower for ten years. He finds her hopeless. Her magic does not care what he thinks.

Why they work: prickly, slow and very much a fairy tale.

Tory and Darius

Zodiac Academy: The Awakening

A long-lost Vega twin turns up at Zodiac Academy with a claim to the throne, and one of the four Heirs makes it his mission to drive her out.

Why they work: bully romance turned all the way up, across a very long series.

Why Enemies to Lovers Works

It works because it forces character. You can't do enemies to lovers with two flat people. Both have to want something, both have to have reasons, and both have to be wrong in ways that make sense. The romance becomes a side effect of two strong personalities colliding for long enough that they start to understand each other. Sarah J. Maas figured this out with Feyre and Rhysand. Rebecca Yarros built Fourth Wing on it. Holly Black weaponised it with Jude and Cardan. The hate has to be real or the love means nothing.

What to Watch For

The biggest failure mode is fake enemies. Two people who say they hate each other but never act like it, never make decisions that hurt the other, never have to choose between their goals. That's bickering, not enmity. The other failure is sudden capitulation, where one big confession dissolves all the conflict. Real enemies to lovers should feel like a slow surrender, with both characters resisting until they can't anymore.

Every book page lists its content warnings separately from the heat rating, so check those if a theme matters to you.

Where to Start

If you've never tried the trope, A Court of Mist and Fury is the gateway drug. Then The Cruel Prince for the YA version with sharper teeth. Fourth Wing if you want the modern crowd-pleaser. The Serpent and the Wings of Night for darker stakes. From Blood and Ash if you want spice with your slow burn. Each of these handles the trope differently but all of them earn the moment when the walls finally come down.

Not sure where your heat line is? The spice guide explains every level, and the book quiz matches you with three books at your level.

Enemies to Lovers FAQ

What is the enemies to lovers trope?

Two rivals or adversaries gradually develop romantic feelings as they uncover deeper layers of each other's character. Enemies to lovers is the trope. Every other romantasy trope plays second fiddle.

What are the best enemies to lovers romantasy books?

By reader rating, the top of this list is A Court of Mist and Fury by Sarah J. Maas (4.7 on Goodreads), Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros (4.5 on Goodreads) and Six of Crows by Leigh Bardugo (4.5 on Goodreads). Every book on the page is ranked the same way, and each one has a heat rating so you can pick your level.

What are the spiciest enemies to lovers romantasy books?

The Rebel King (Scorching, 5 of 5), Corrupt (Very spicy, 4.5 of 5) and Fearless (Very spicy, 4.5 of 5) are the hottest enemies to lovers books we have rated. Expect explicit scenes, and check the content warnings on each book page.

What are good enemies to lovers books for beginners?

Start where most readers start: A Court of Thorns and Roses (book 1 of a series, warm), Fourth Wing (book 1 of a series, spicy) and Throne of Glass (book 1 of a series, mild). They are the most widely read enemies to lovers books on the shelf, so you will find plenty of people to talk to about them.

Are there clean or low-spice enemies to lovers books?

Yes. 27 books here are rated No spice or Mild, which means kissing and tension without explicit scenes. Good places to start are Poison and Honey, Throne of Glass and The Cruel Prince. Use the heat filter above the list to see only those.

How many enemies to lovers books are on The Fae Shelf?

131 books carry the enemies to lovers tag right now, including 2 upcoming releases that get a heat rating once they are out. 60% of the rated books here sit at Spicy or Very spicy. The list grows as we add and rate new books.

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